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<p>Can you think of any other better ways to clandestinely observe other's conversation? Leave your ideas in the comments.</p>
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<div></div>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Sounded Like a Good Idea</title><category term="Education"/><category term="English"/><category term="Marriage"/><category term="Math"/><category term="bad ideas"/><category term="good ideas"/><category term="marriage"/><category term="teaching"/><id>http://www.jigsawdust.com/journal/2010/3/3/sounded-like-a-good-idea.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.jigsawdust.com/journal/2010/3/3/sounded-like-a-good-idea.html"/><author><name>Jeffrey</name></author><published>2010-03-04T00:38:10Z</published><updated>2010-03-04T00:38:10Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>ME: I was thinking, after I student teach, I can just substitute teach and make some pretty good money. <br />WIFE: Really?<br />ME: Yeah, they pay like $120 a day. It's not certain you can get placed somewhere every day. I mean, I can make more substituting than I can teaching full-time.<br />SOMER: No, you can't.<br />ME: (after doing the math) Oh, I guess not. It was a better idea before I did the math. I guess this is why I'll be teaching English.</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Not Ready To Make Nice</title><category term="Christopher Hitchens"/><category term="Hunter S. Thompson"/><category term="John Scalzi"/><category term="Penn Jillette"/><category term="Self-Reflection"/><category term="don't pull punches"/><category term="role models"/><category term="tell 'em like it is"/><category term="walking contradiction"/><id>http://www.jigsawdust.com/journal/2010/2/18/not-ready-to-make-nice.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.jigsawdust.com/journal/2010/2/18/not-ready-to-make-nice.html"/><author><name>Jeffrey</name></author><published>2010-02-19T05:24:31Z</published><updated>2010-02-19T05:24:31Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 250px;" src="http://www.jigsawdust.com/storage/hatemail.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1266557468890" alt="" /></span></span>I was walking through Borders today and was stopped cold in my tracks. I spotted an interesting book. I was drawn to this book like a Federation starship being pulled in by a Romulan tractor beam. Initially, it was the cover (see picture), but upon further examination, it was obvious that the book had been placed by the very hand of Xenu for my reading pleasure. It's a book written by a blogger. A famous blogger named <a href="http://whatever.scalzi.com/">John Scalzi</a>. The incomporable <a href="http://wilwheaton.typepad.com/">Wil Wheaton</a> wrote the introduction for this book, so it's definitely going to be right up my alley. I read the first page immediately, which included this disclaimer, which I've decided is a perfect fit for my own blog and personality</p>
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<p>Everything here is my opinion, and mine alone.<br />Occasionally, I am completely full of shit.<br />Well, all right, fine, more than occasionally.<br />On occasion I will also opine on things I know little or nothing about.<br />Which is fine, because the US Constitution says I can.<br />So there.<br />I'm not interested in being fair.<br />I am occasionally petty, nasty, snappish and rude. I'm also occasionally a tremendously sweet guy. You never know which you're going to get.<br />Unless you have been told specifically by me otherwise, no, as a matter of fact, I don't care what you think about me or my opinions.<br />I do try to be polite when I tell you that.<br />But I can't promise anything.<br />This is done by me for the purposes of my own amusement, and exists and updates entirely at my whim. If I decide to go away for a day, or a week, or forever, then I will.<br />I think that's it for now.</p>
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<p>As I've stated before, I reserve the right to be a <a href="http://www.jigsawdust.com/journal/2009/9/25/why-you-should-contradict-yourself-and-feel-good-about-it.html">walking contradiction</a>. A few days ago, I wasn't nice enough. But the more I reflect on it, the more I realize that my idols are and were men who pull no punches. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&amp;field-keywords=Christopher+Hitchens&amp;x=0&amp;y=0">Christopher Hitchens</a>, <a href="http://crackle.com/c/Penn_Says">Penn Jillette</a>, and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Daps&amp;field-keywords=Hunter+Thompson&amp;x=0&amp;y=0">Hunter S. Thompson</a> top my list of heroes. All very smart, very opinionated, and seldom, if ever, apologetic. Maybe the Dixie Chicks said it best: 'I'm not ready to make nice'.</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Why Can't I Just Be Nice?</title><category term="Chris Guillebeau"/><category term="Personal Development"/><category term="Self-Reflection"/><category term="Thich Nhat Hanh"/><category term="anger"/><category term="being stupid"/><category term="humility"/><category term="self-reflection"/><category term="sufi poet"/><id>http://www.jigsawdust.com/journal/2010/2/13/why-cant-i-just-be-nice.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.jigsawdust.com/journal/2010/2/13/why-cant-i-just-be-nice.html"/><author><name>Jeffrey</name></author><published>2010-02-14T04:39:11Z</published><updated>2010-02-14T04:39:11Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.jigsawdust.com/storage/keys.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1266122631592" alt="" /></span></span>The fam and I were at the mall today shopping for a few things (mom needed a coat and Somer needed a pair of replacement jeans). We found ourselves in a particular store, which will remain unnamed, shopping for new jeans for Somer. My mother made a comment, or perhaps said nothing at all, at which I decided to comment about the store's selection of men's clothes. I stated that they were 'very Jersey shore, worn mostly by neckless, meathead douchebags', and then pointed out a random bald guy across the door befitting of my description. What is wrong with me?<br /><br />I find myself in situations like this way too often. Situations where I'm not as nice as I would like to be. Often, these are moments where other people don't even get to experience my vitriolic tirades. In fact, the majority of times, I keep them in my head. The problem is the fact that they are occurring at all. I can't say that these episodes are any more or less so than the past, although I am more aware of them now than I may have been in the past. And that's a good thing.<br /><br />I've picked up the book titled <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Anger-Cooling-Thich-Nhat-Hanh/dp/1573229377/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1266122655&amp;sr=8-1">'Anger'</a> by Thich Nhat Hanh more than a few times while browsing the bookstore, although I don't think I ever cracked the damn thing open. Lots of help that's gonna be, right? I ponder the proper response in the clothes store. Mentioning that I'm not a fan of the clothes would have been sufficient enough. There's no need to berate and judge a bunch of people that I don't even know.<br /><br />I need to remember the <a href="http://www.jigsawdust.com/journal/2009/9/22/learning-from-unexpected-sources.html">blog post</a> I wrote on learning from others. Just because others are different doesn't mean you can't learn from them. In fact, the dumbest person you know can most definitely teach you something. Sure, it may not be the latest discovery in particle physics, but it may be some unusual insight on life from a different and rewarding perspective. This step begins by seeing others as being more valuable than yourself. It progresses with the ability to approach each situation as a learner and every person you meet as a master.&nbsp;<br /><br />In closing, I'll leave you with a poem from Hafiz, a sufi poet from the 14th century*:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">The small man<br />Builds cages for everyone<br />He<br />Knows.<br />While the sage,<br />Who has to duck his head<br />When the moon is low,<br />Keeps dropping keys all night long<br />For the<br />Beautiful<br />Rowdy<br />Prisoners.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">&nbsp;Note to self: Build fewer cages, drop more keys.<br /><br />*While in the process of writing this post, I ran across an excellent and <a href="http://chrisguillebeau.com/3x5/the-small-man-builds-cages-for-everyone/">timely post</a> about empowerment by <a href="http://www.chrisguillebeau.com">Chris Guillebeau</a>. Credit to him for the poem and new mantra.</p>
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<p>The Great and Powerful Oz commands that homosexuals report front and center. You have lived in the shadows for too long and now must proudly show off your sexuality in military splendor. Why? Because we are not interested in your service, we are interested in your identity. By we, we mean the royal we. The Great and Powerful Oz has spoken.&nbsp;<br /><br />Disgusting.</p>
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<p>I left a short comment that I will elaborate on here. Cobb seems to assert that Obama's stance on 'don't ask, don't tell' is insisting he doesn't value homosexuals' service, only their sexual identity. I say Obama's goal is exactly the opposite. He is trying to give people, straight or queer, the opportunity to serve our nation without being pigeon-holed by their sexual identity.<br /><br />Under the current policy, if you are found to be a homosexual serving in America's military, you are discharged after your sexuality has been paraded in front of your fellow servicemen and women in a military court. This is what Obama's proclamation seeks to change. He's not seeking to change 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' to 'Ask, Tell'. He's seeking to eliminate the stigma of homosexuality from service and make the two things independent and unrelated. <br /><br />If you are gay and want to serve in the military, you don't have to broadcast it to everyone, but you no longer have to walk in shadows and meet in secrecy. You no longer can be brought before a military court and discharged for being who you are.<br /><br />The integration of homosexuals in the military today is reminiscent of the integration of blacks into the military in the late 1940s. Although blacks served in our nation's military long before that, just as homosexuals have, they weren't officially integrated or given equal status until Truman's <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Executive_Order_9981">Executive Order 9981</a>.<br /><br />I watched the Joint Chiefs of Staff's reactions during the President's comments. They sat stoic and austere, showing visible disdain for removing 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' from their policy books. These soldiers looked glued to their seats and shaken to their core. The very definition of uncomfortable. It's funny to me that men who are used to and welcome danger and adventure in so many arenas of their lives are so obviously scared of gay people.  <br /><br />I just feel sorry for gays currently serving in the military. They're in a precarious position. If they come out now and Obama's dream comes true, it's all good. But what if it doesn't? What if the military decides to keep their prejudices for a little bit longer? Will bright, young soldiers like <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daniel_Choi">Lt. Dan Choi</a> be forcibly kept from serving their country? I hope this isn't the case, but it very well may be. I wish them all the best of luck in their journey and want to personally thank everyone who serves in our military, especially the gay men and women.</p>
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<p>I don't watch 'The Bachelor', but I've seen some news reports about a recent incident. The premise of 'The Bachelor' is for a guy to go through a selection of 25 or so women and select the best one to be his bride. This season, one of the female contestants was booted off the show because she either flirted with, kissed, or had sex with a producer. The producer was fired and she was kicked off the show. She was treated with utter contempt by the host, and she was kicked up with a dramatic 'how dare you, you little slut' send-off. This is such a double standard.</p>
<p>The bachelor can flirt, kiss, and sleep with any girl on the show until he finds the right one, yet the girls are expected to remain chaste and focus all of their attention on the one special man. How is this not a double standard? It most certainly is, and it's just a simple continuation of silly high school ways of thinking.</p>
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I'll put it this way. If I leave my reader stagnant for 24+ hours, I will have 1000+ entries to catch up on. I seldom have time to read all of my subscriptions, so I tier them for easy reading. I've tried every method of organizing my feeds, and tiering seems to be the best method. <br /><br />I have my 'NSFW' folder, which includes all the celeb blogs, so I can keep up with the latest celebrity gossip, sex tapes, nip slips, and hacked cell phone pictures. I have a folder called 'Always Read', which is as described. I then have 'First Tier', which isn't perfectly named, but it's what I read when I have extra time. Then I have 'Dumping Ground', which I seldom ever have time for, but has a couple of blogs that I leave there so I don't forget.<br /><br />I'm always on the lookout for good blogs, so if you have any that you think I should read, leave them in the comments section. For now, I will leave you with a list of my 5 favorite blogs of the moment and brief descriptions of why I like them (plus an honorable mention for a great blog that disappeared, but has recently returned).<br /><br />1. <a href="http://www.tynan.net">TYNAN</a><br /><br />This is my top pick. Tynan is an amazing person. He was a character in <a href="http://www.neilstrauss.com">Neil Strauss</a>'s book '<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Game-Penetrating-Secret-Society-Artists/dp/0060554738/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1263513159&amp;sr=8-1">The Game: Penetrating The Secret Society of Pickup Artists</a>'. He's been a world famous pickup artist, a professional gambler, a world traveller, and he lives out of an RV. He is the person I would want to be if I were to come back and live another life. He is a creative, outside-of-the-box thinker, and he always has fresh insights and challenging posts. In addition to that, he lives the life he talks about and is incredibly charming. Watch his videos and read his blog posts, and you'll want to be a better person.<br /><br />2. <a href="http://www.ryanholiday.net">RyanHoliday.net</a><br /><br />Ryan Holiday is a kid philosopher. I say this because he is all of 21 years old, yet he speaks with the wisdom of a person who has lived for a hundred years. He's worked with <a href="http://www.powerseductionandwar.com/">Robert Greene</a>, <a href="http://www.tuckermax.com">Tucker Max</a>, and some major talent in the entertainment industry. Did I mention that he's only 21? Incredible. His bio says it better than I ever could, so I'll just paste it here:<br /><br />'I'm 21. I run five days a week. I am constantly reading. I think Meditations by Marcus Aurelius is the greatest book ever written. I've always believed that if you don't define yourself, other people will gladly do it for you--this blog is my attempt at that. I live in Los Angeles while trying to spend as little time there as possible.'<br /><br />3. <a href="http://www.thedreamlounge.net">The Dream Lounge</a><br /><br />Anthony Johnson is another pickup artist. What is my fascination with pickup artists, you ask? Well, these are people who, in addition to being able to attract beautiful people at their whim, don't stop there. They learn the psychology and art of dealing with people. I can learn from these guys. Anthony is one of those people who always has opinions that seems contrarian, but he backed up with evidence. You may not agree with everything he says or believes, but you will always walk away stimulated and engaged. He is the founder and organizer of <a href="http://the21convention.com">The 21 Convention</a>. Like Ryan Holiday, he is also only 21 years old.<br />&nbsp;<br />4. <a href="http://www.apricot-tea.com"><span>Apricot Tea</span></a><br /><br />This is the blog of a beautiful and original spirit, Ev'Yan Nasman. She is a bargain fashionista, an amazing photographer, and an all around gorgeous person. I enjoy reading her blog because she always has interesting things to share, and she is never boring. I am a fan of her fashion sense as well as her common sense. Once again, her personal biography sums it up better than I ever could:<br /><br />'married (to <a href="http://illuminatedmind.net">Jonathan Mead</a>); a vegetarian &amp; an animal lover; an advice columnist; left-handed; a Virgo; environmentally conscious; old-fashioned &amp; fashion oriented; introverted a closeted social butterfly; a picture-taker; frugal; Sofie&rsquo;s mommy (my dog); tattooed &amp; pierced; a lover of art, music, &amp; black &amp; white movies; still discovering myself.'<br /><br />5. <a href="http://cobb.typepad.com"><span>Cobb</span></a><br /><br />The subtitle of Cobb's blog is 'curious, skeptical, analytical'. His blog is a heady journal that waxes eloquently about anything and everything from politics to movies to works of literature. I am constantly impressed by his never-ending fount of knowledge. This guy knows everything about everything and can link them together in ways that I am envious of. I only discovered his blog a few months ago, and am annoyed I haven't been reading it forever.<br /><br />Honorable Mention: <a href="http://lindseysrantings.blogspot.com"><span>Lindsey's Rantings</span></a><br /><br />Lindsey Kirth Jensen is a young Mormon girl who should be a professional comedy writer. She doesn't realize the talent for the written word that she possesses. She is a hilarious hypochondriac with not-quite high enough self-esteem. Her self-deprecating humor is truly endearing. She reminds me of a female Seinfeld, always able to find funny in the mundane happenings of life. She is a beautiful person married to a musician who shares the same first name as yours truly. I discovered her blog through <a href="http://friendlyatheist.com/">The Friendly Atheist</a> blog. She disappeared for a while, but she has recently revived her writing, and I am looking forward to more 'Monday 13' lists for years to come.<br /><br />Well, there it is. Not that anyone should care, but these are currently my five, no six favorite blogs. No matter how busy my life gets, I cannot pass up reading every word that these five writers put to the screen. I recommend that you add these six to your RSS feed immediately and read them forever. You won't regret it. These blogs are an inspiration, my levity, my joie de vivre. I thank them for existing.</div>
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